“rhythm” than a “schedule” person. I
used to love schedules, when I was in school, knowing what time to be wherever
was important. However, after kids, I
wanted to be able to go with the flow a bit more. That especially hit home when I would try and
put my new baby to bed at 10 and 2, and realized she was more interested in
sleeping when she wanted to sleep rather than when I put her down for a nap.
almost 7 years old. My, how time
flies! And she is a little less
enthusiastic about surprises throughout the day. Instead, she likes to have an idea of what
little bit more about life and what they are going to be doing during the
day. I realized that my not so little
girl loves to know what the plan is for the day.
at all. She has no boxes to check off;
instead she just listens to what I tell her to do.
lately – especially with school – she isn’t as enthusiastic about completing
one subject and then going to the next.
might be troubling her (not knowing the direction of the day) was the problem,
or if it was something more serious like not enjoying the coursework we are
what I expected of her through the day – what subjects we would be working on,
piano practice, and a craft. She
responded the way I hoped she would, with enthusiasm. Having that morning meeting where we discussed
what she would need to do that day was a huge help. I didn’t need to go into the specifics all
that much, like the order in which to do them, but I did tell her what would
need to be done before she could get back to playing.
same as my own checklist. Giving that
control to my daughter, for her to see what needed to be finished before she
moved onto more free play was exactly what she needed.
checklist for her to use each week. She
has a dry erase marker that she can use, and she can keep the sheet in her
school bin to check off as she completes tasks.
This is a very simple checklist, which includes the subject, and boxes
under the days of the week so that she can check them off. It does not include all the coursework I
expect her to complete in each subject.
Just a general list of what needs to be done each day.
while others are only a couple times a week, like science and history. If she wants to do more than the required
subjects each day, I’m not going to stop her, so I listed boxes for each
subject on each day.
more detail such as what pages she needs to read, what math lessons she is
doing. But, for now, this is what we are
children a weekly checklist? Do your
kids want to know “what’s next” or are they content to go with the flow?
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